When Did You Know… He Was Not The One? is a collection of short stories told by women who we found to be warm, bright, and extremely intuitive. The stories are reflective of our current times and the voices of the women are engaging and empowering. Their stories range from being comical, to being poignant or touching on extremely serious issues, such as physical, verbal or sexual abuse.

Very early on we understood the need to conduct the interviews in a non-judgmental or analytical way and therefore, When Did You Know… He Was Not The One? is not a self-help book; rather it is a collection of stories from women who have “been there” and “done that”. These women have survived their experiences and are willing to share. Many have become more successful as a result of their experiences. However, some are still stuck and will probably repeat many of these types of negative relationships again and again.

In order to ensure that the stories were broadly reflective we contacted such organizations as Parents Without Partners, Visions Anew, The National Association of Female Executives (NAFE), Business Networking Group of Long Island, The Girl Scouts Association of the USA , The Fashion Group Inc., Women Business Owners Network, and National Association of Women Business Owners.  As a result of these contacts, we have interviewed over 96 women across the country.